Three steps to take to stop undermining your confidence!

1. Stop trying to be like everyone else!

There’s nothing fun about that, it’s not cool… it’s boring and damn hard!!! Constantly trying to be something that you are not is super exhausting!!!

You are admiring people who are different, you think they are cool…but you are trying to be like everyone else!

Look, being different is not easy! It is super scary!

Like any other fear-the only way to break through it is to face it. When you realize that you did something outrageous and you are still standing-you will realize that it wasn’t so hard after all.

2. Stop apologising for your opinions

We can’t all think the same and feel the same! We are not robots. World was not built and evolved to this level by everyone thinking the same and doing the same.

Your opinion is as good as any other!

You have the right to think different than the masses. You are not a black sheep; you are just you! You are strong individual who can think for herself.

Your opinion might not be always popular.

You might be wrong sometimes.

You might change your mind.

All perfectly fine!

You are learning, evolving, becoming a better version of yourself daily. Your opinions can change.

But in order for you to have something to change you need to have something to start with.

What truth is burning inside of you?

What do you really believe in?

What’s something you would only tell to your best friend, or your mom, or just your cat?

You can’t live fully if you are shying away of who you are!!!

3. Stop running after people and take some time for yourself by yourself

Noise!!!

Noise is something that will steal away your authenticity faster than anything else. When you are constantly surrounded by people, when you spend every alone moment scrolling down your soc media feed, when you always have to have tv on… you are stealing away the precious time from yourself.

The time you can use to connect with yourself on a deeper level!

The time you can use to get to know yourself, to reflect on where you are, where you have been and where you want to go.

That’s the time you can use to get stronger into being your own women and not a follower of someone else!

You need to be very selfish with your time.

It’s your most valuable asset. You will never get this day back! When it’s over that means you have one last day on this earth! That’s huge!!!

Did you spend it in the best way possible?

Did you do something that’s made you happy?

Every day you waste on trying to be something that you are not is one day less you had to live as the happy self you can be!

Take a moment to really take this in!

Make your happiness your number one priority!