I feel like an 18-year-old!!
And for the longest time I felt like I needed to “grow up” and feel more serious in order to call myself a coach... It somehow felt wrong to be this playful and work with something so important. Wherever I would turn I was seeing other coaches who seemed to have that “I’m serious adult” type of energy about them!
On the other hand, when I’m in the zone, producing content or talking to my clients, the words that are coming out are the “old soul” things! Some seriously wise stuff!!!!
And then the other day it hit me-and I can’t effing believe I didn’t understand this before-I have youthful energy about me and that’s ok!!
That’s more than ok!!
The right clients are going to be attracted to me BECAUSE of my energy! Working with me is fun!! One of my recent clients said she loved talking to me because I share a lot of personal stuff in a fun way and she can totally relate to it!!!
We spend a lot of time trying to fit in the “role”. We have this preconception of how a coach should behave and present herself, how doctor should act, what kind of person is entrepreneur and how the CEO should be.
Things that we are seeing are just examples of what’s already out there. The beauty of this miracle called life is that we can create. Scratch that-we have to create our own reality. That’s the only way to really and truly BE ALIVE!
So f..ck all those shoulds that are poisoning your mind!
Take what you have and make the best of it!!!
Take your uniqueness and be proud of it!!!
There’s only one you and the world needs you exactly as you are!!
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