Busting three major fears that are stopping you from being who you really are!!!
1. To be judged, disliked
Let me tell you a hard truth right now so we get that out of the way-you will always be disliked and judged by someone!
You can’t please everyone so why even waste energy on that!
Those who judge you are just projecting their own insecurities on you. They dislike themselves but that’s a hard thing to admit so it’s easier to pour that poison to someone else! When you decide you won’t take it personally you become untouchable! No one can hurt your feelings! I’m not saying that there won’t be moment where some words or actions hurt-you are human and you have feelings. What im saying is that when the initial blow passes and the reflection phase kicks in-you have a choice of taking their action at the face value and put yourself down, OR you can choose to look at it realistically and understand it’s about them and not you.
You always have that choice!
2. To be laughed at
Same with being judged and disliked, being laugh at is super scary and it makes us pull into our shell, close up, not let our truth out. Better safe than ridiculed right?
Wrong!!!
If someone is that shallow to make fun of your truth, they are a very miserable individual themselves and you should cut them out of your life!
That sounds harsh but your life is too precious to be lived in fear of someone who is not worth your time. People who don’t respect others are fighting many battles on the inside. They are very insecure themselves and attack is their best defense against being exposed.
You on the other hand do not need to be their punching bag!You need to demand respect and you teach others how to treat you by what you accept. If you accept to be ridiculed you are teaching them not to respect you!
Never do that to yourself!
You are as worthy as any other individual on this planet!
3. To be abandoned
This is a big one! No one wants to be abandoned-it hurts like hell, it tears down our self-esteem, it sends us into downward spiral of self-doubt.
But if you look at it from other perspective-if you being youcauses people to leave do you really think they should be in your life in the first place?
Sounds harsh but stay with me!
Do you really have the energy to pretend to be something you are not for the rest of your life just to keep someone there? It’s unfair to you and it’s unfair to them! You are essentially lying to them! And you are feeling exhausted, anxious, always double checking yourself, weighing every word before saying it. You are wasting precious energy and you still feel like you are in the cage.
When you let loose and be yourself you will piss some people off, some will fall of your radar but many others will be attracted to you. It’s the law and it’s called the Law of Attraction!
Everything is energy and when you radiate insecurity, fear, when you are fake…that’s what you’ll have in your life!
Be yourself, let loose and watch how your life transforms in something much more fulfilling!
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