What are those?
Those are most definitely NOT the days when you went to work, came back home, eat whatever dinner, watched TV and went to bed just to repeat it all over again the next day. Those happen too, but we don’t remember them.
What we do remember is when we did something that made our soul sing! Whether that being something completely crazy or just pure fun, we felt alive and strong and (cliché alert!) on top of the world!
So now my question is: why are those days exceptions rather than a “rule”?
Why don’t we feel on most of our days like we are happy to the point of bursting? Why are we living just occasionally and most of the times we are just kind of passing through life waiting for something?
WHAT is it that we are waiting for-question that is the most important here! When we find the answer to that one then we will know how to find it! You can’t find something you don’t know you are looking for!
Am I right?
So what are we looking for?
I can’t give you that answer, it’s personal. What I CAN do is help you ask yourself some hard questions which will lead you to your answer.
Are you ready?
Take pen and paper and start writing! (it is important to write down every thought that comes to mind and make connections between those. Answer will be somewhere in there)
When was the last time you felt excited about something?
What were you excited about?
When was the last time you felt relaxed?
What were you doing at that moment?
Where were you?
Who were you with?
When was the last time you felt urge to call someone?
Who was that person?
When was the last time you laughed super hard?
What were you doing?
Who were you with?
So now when you answered these 11 questions you got to know a few very important things about yourself:
-what things/people make your life worth living
-what you need to do to relax when stressed or overwhelmed
-which people are really important in your life and therefore which relationships you need to work on preserving or improving
-what makes you happy
Now when you what is truly important and what is just noise think about what can you do to include more of “good stuff” into your life. When you start consciously choosing what you are doing and whom are you doing it with you will become creator of your reality. You will purposely create life that you enjoy.
There is big power hidden in that ability. To be in charge of your destiny!
Doesn’t just a possibility, just a thought of you being sooo powerful get you super excited???
I know I’m getting ecstatic on this end while writing these lines.
"Within you lie all answers, true greatness
and unconditional love”
Kam K Dhanda
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